You can get to where you want to be, from where you are ~
but you must stop spending so much time noticing and thinking about where you are. Be a more selective sifter, and make lists of the positive things you are living. Look forward to where you want to be and spend no time complaining about where you are.
The responsive Universe makes no distinction between the thoughts you think about your current reality and the thoughts you think as you dream of your improved life. You are creating bu the virtue of what you are thinking about, and so there is no advantage whatsoever to ponder, or remember, or observe or speak of things you do not want.
Make your active vibration about what you do want ~ and notice how quickly life changes to match your vibration.